To the Newly Baptized · §2 · Clement of Alexandria

Measured speech and modest bearing toward others

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Clement continues his direct address to the newly baptized, giving practical rules for calm and modest speech and behavior toward other people.

Let your words to those you meet be gentle, and your greetings sweet. Show modesty toward women, and keep your gaze turned to the ground. Speak everything with circumspection, and give your voice what is useful, measuring your utterance by the need of your hearers, so that it is audible but does not escape the hearing of those present through being too small, nor exceed what is fitting with too loud a cry. Guard yourself so that you never say anything you have not examined and thought through beforehand. Do not rashly interject your own words in the middle of another person's speech, for you must listen and speak in turn, dividing speech and silence by time. Learn gladly, and teach without envy. Never hide wisdom from others out of jealousy, and do not withdraw from learning through modesty. Yield to elders as to fathers. Honor God's servants. Make a beginning with wisdom and virtue. Do not be quarrelsome toward your friends, nor mock them or play the buffoon at their expense. Strongly refuse falsehood, deceit, and insolence. Bear with the proud and insolent person with graciousness, as a gentle and great-souled man.

Greek

Ἤπιά σοι πρὸς τοὺς ἀπαντῶντας ἔστω τὰ ῥήματα, καὶ προσηγορίαι γλυκεῖαι· αἰδὼς δὲ πρὸς γυναῖκας καὶ βλέμμα τετραμμένον εἰς γῆν. λάλει δὲ περιεσκεμμένως ἅπαντα, καὶ τῇ φωνῇ τὸ χρήσιμον ἀποδίδου, τῇ χρείᾳ τῶν ἀκουόντων τὸ φθέγμα μετρῶν, ἄχρι ἂν καὶ ἐξάκουστον ᾖ, καὶ μήτε διαφεῦγον τὴν ἀκοὴν τῶν παρόντων ὑπὸ σμικρότητος, μήτε ὑπερβάλλον μείζονι τῇ κραυγῇ. φυλάττου δὲ ὅπως μηδέν ποτε λαλήσῃς ὃ μὴ προεσκέψω καὶ προενόησας· μηδὲ προχείρως καὶ μεταξὺ τῶν τοῦ ἑτέρου λόγων ὑπόβαλλε τοὺς σαυτοῦ δεῖ γὰρ ἀνὰ μέρος ἀκούειν καὶ διαλέγεσθαι, χρόνῳ μερίζοντα λόγον καὶ σιωπήν· μάνθανε δὲ ἀσμένως, καὶ ἀφθόνως δίδασκε, μηδὲ ὑπὸ φθόνου ποτὲ σοφίαν ἀποκρύπτου πρὸς τοὺς ἑτέρους, μηδὲ μαθήσεως ἀφίστασο δι’ αἰδῶ. ὕπεικε πρεσβυτέροις ἴσα πατράσιν· τίμα θεράποντας θεοῦ· κάταρχε σοφίας καὶ ἀρετῆς. μηδὲ ἐριστικὸς ἔσο πρὸς τοὺς φίλους, μηδὲ χλευαστὴς κατ’ αὐτῶν καὶ γελωτοποιός· ψεῦδος δὲ καὶ δόλον καὶ ὕβριν ἰσχυρῶς παραίτου· σὺν εὐφημίᾳ δὲ φέρε καὶ τὸν ὑπερήφανον καὶ ὑβριστὴν ὡς πρᾷός τε καὶ μεγαλόψυχος ἀνήρ.