Mourning, rebuke and a sober mind teach more than laughter and revelry.
A man who knows the pleasant things that will befall him in life gains nothing more by it, even if we grant that he knows them; and yet human curiosity still contrives to pry into what will happen even after each person's death, and to think it knows (Ecclesiastes 6:12). A good remembrance is sweeter to the soul than oil to the body, and the departure from life is better than birth (Ecclesiastes 7:1). It is a better choice to mourn than to revel, and to be with those who grieve rather than with those who are getting drunk (Ecclesiastes 7:2). For so it is: when someone has come to the end of life, he has no anxiety about the things around him.
Sensible anger is to be preferred to laughter, for by a stern look on the face the soul is set right (Ecclesiastes 7:3). So the souls of the wise are grave and hold themselves in, while the souls of fools are puffed up and run loose (Ecclesiastes 7:4). It is far more to be wished for to receive the rebuke of one wise man than to listen to a whole chorus of base and wretched men singing (Ecclesiastes 7:5). For the laughter of foolish men is like the crackling of many thorns burning in a fierce fire (Ecclesiastes 7:6). This too is wretched, and indeed a very great evil: false accusation. It plots against the souls of the wise and tries to destroy the noble steadfastness of the good (Ecclesiastes 7:7). One should praise a speaker not as he begins his words but as he ends them, and welcome a modest character rather than one that is lofty and puffed up (Ecclesiastes 7:8). One must by all means keep anger in check and not be carried away readily into wrath, which fools serve as slaves (Ecclesiastes 7:9).